Author Archives: jaclynfre

About jaclynfre

Recipe adventurer, fast walker, sporadic writer, aunt, sister and daughter

new site of friends without id

Please visit the new home of friends without id.

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emails from 3 a.m.

“Raven” “Hitch” “PLO” These words have appeared as subject lines in emails I have received from 3 a.m. The words are like bats flying out of a cave. Or on the flip side, the butterflies that are captured in a … Continue reading

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“woke” warriors

One of my students breathlessly asked, “What do you think of it so far?” A student and a colleague had both implored me to read The Warriors by Erin Hunter. The student had been recommending books for awhile which I … Continue reading

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Are you scared?

Whenever my brother calls, I pick up right away if I can. He and I are adopted and our sisters were not. He is Black. I am Asian. He lives with Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. He lives in a group home. … Continue reading

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giving and receiving road rage

In Michigan, a left turn has its own twist called a Michigan Left. I have spent a good portion of my life driving forward only to double-back in a U-turn as well as waiting at left U-turn lanes for an … Continue reading

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this was my 4th draft

Sketchnoting has found me. She is that girl in your class with enviable handwriting and uncluttered doodles. She is aspirational. I, on the other hand, have a startlingly clear memory of my father consoling me because I was disheartened by … Continue reading

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but you don’t

When you notice an open garage door with no car in it, you have the urge to dash inside, press the button to close the door and then mission impossible your way out beneath the sliding panels. But you don’t. … Continue reading

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lost in busan

On a lazy Sunday morning in Busan, South Korea, I tapped open Naver Map to see how much time would be needed to visit Magnate Cafe. Totally doable! Less than an hour by subway, bus and walking. Perfect! (Also, any … Continue reading

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travel companions

I’ve just finished reading Yellowface by R. F. Kuang and was intrigued by an Asian author writing in the first person voice of a white protagonist. As a reader, I felt like a reluctant travel companion. Although, I was looking … Continue reading

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bts: everything everywhere all at once

Warning: bts exclusive army content I wasn’t sure where to post bts related content from my recent trip to Korea. In an effort to catalogue the memories, this little known blog, bearing a cryptic title, will post the “everything everywhere … Continue reading

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